In today’s world, being a single mother can be a hectic full-time job. I know that because I had a friend who was a single mother of two children, as her husband had left her about two years ago. I saw her, and I couldn’t help but sympathize with her, because she had the responsibility to raise her kids as well as handle herself. Running a family is supposed to be a job for two, but when a single person is supposed to do that job, it can be a huge burden. This is why I felt the need to write this article to give all of you single mothers out there some helpful advices.
Tip #1: Stop caring about what the society says.
I feel like this should really be the very first step towards making your life better. Getting real, we all know the people will talk. Assume things that aren’t actually do. Your job is to stop caring about what they say, and instead focusing on raising your children in the best way possible.
Tip #2: Don’t work or stress too hard.
You have to know that even if you try, you can’t be everything that a father would’ve been to your children. The best thing to do is cut yourself some slack, because you know you have already been striving too hard. Yes, always perform to your fullest, but don’t forget about yourself either. Take care of yourself, and never try to neglect yourself ever.
Tip #3: Set your work schedule in consideration with your family.
You should always do work in a way that you are able to give enough time to both, your work and family. Also, don’t forget to leave out some time in the middle for just yourself as well!
Tip #4: Raising your children with a good mindset.
Now this one is all up to you. Raise your kids in a way that they are understanding of your situation, and do not go overboard in wanting to get their desires fulfilled. This will help you in a great way, because then they’ll understand you in a better way, and while they’re growing up, would cooperate with you as well.
Tip #5: Don’t be too hard on yourself; start dating!
Having a partner and some change in your hard life would be a very good idea. Whether you are a young teen or well into your 40s, you should never turn away from a person who feels special to you. Giving yourself some time, you should find a person who cares about you, and will help you get through your hard times.
Tip #6: Look for role models.
You should always know that you are not the only one going through this. I always used to tell my friend this thing, that there were thousands of women around the world, struggling in the same way that she was. Finding a famous personality who has been going through the same thing, and is successful, is something you should look upon and get motivation from.
Tip #7: Always congratulate yourself!
You know you are one brave woman, striving in this cruel world, and you know that you are a big superhero! Always appreciate yourself for what you are doing and how much you are doing, it always helps.